Okay, so the surgery is tomorrow. I've got an appointment set for 4:00pm, our time, that's 2:00pm California time. I'm not sure what to say about it at this point. I just know that a lot of you have been so sweet in loving on me and praying for me, and are wanting to be kept up-to-date. The doc says based on the new ultrasound and an oncologist's opinion, I probably don't have cancer. YEA!! He does say that I have probably 3 or more cysts on each ovary that he wants to try to remove, and very likely a bunch of endometrial tissue that's in places where it doesn't belong. Must've gotten wrong directions from my brain - probably the same part that told the Mutiple Sclerosis it could reside in this body. As far as the surgery goes, I'm feeling "okay" about it at this point, but I've got real fun preparations that include not eating since yesterday and colonoscopy-like beverages. Yum. I'm a little cranky at this point. And I want an In-N-Out burger. They don't have those here. Crankier. Grrr...
On the up side... drumroll, please... we have finally found a house, and had our offer accepted!! Yeah, I know we haven't even once mentioned the whole house thing on the blog. Sore subject. First we had to sell the California one - that took a full year. God is good, and though we didn't sell for what we originally wanted, we did sell before the "you-know-what hit the you-know-where". We got out of the house more than we put in, and therefore, had money to put down on something here. We made offers on two houses that didn't go though. We decided to wait until after Jonathan's busy time at Christmas. We put an offer on a house in January. (By the way, turns out a short sale on a house is anything but "short".) They took another offer. (We offered full price and have good credit with money to put down. We figure the other people must have offered their firstborn or something.) At any rate, we had prayed that if it wasn't the house, our offer be rejected. It was rejected. Clear enough answer to a prayer for ya? We kept looking.
We've learned that for some reason, Realtors will always show you something just out of your price range, and something that doesn't quite meet all the criteria you set. Enter Sharon, our absolutely fantastic Realtor who does all that because she knows us better than we know ourselves! I met Sharon at an open house before we even took the job here, she's been working with us ever since. She even found us this rental we've been living in. (Remember she doesn't get paid for that, folks. That's how decent a person she is.) We've spent many, many hours with her, she's practically family, and we absolutely ADORE her! Anyway, she's probably shown us about half the homes in town by now, and pointed out that lots of people here have a one car garage, and that would give us even more options. So, we decided to see the other half of town...
Our criteria:
2 car garage
at least 1500 square feet
3 bedrooms
2 potties
fireplace, preferably wood-burning
dining room (we didn't even have a dining AREA in California!)
good-sized backyard, preferably fenced
Simple enough. So we thought. We actually did see lots of houses that met all the criteria, but it was too far, too ugly, weird layout, too dark, you fill in the rest. So one day, on a marathon home tour, Sharon shows us this house. "Cute" would be the best word for it - any other word would be too long for this little cottage.
It had the following:
1 car garage
1450 square feet (INCLUDING the basement)
2 bedrooms (with a 3rd almost complete)
1 potty
NO fireplace
dining room
good-sized fenced backyard
In other words, PERFECT! I guess that's love - you can't always define it, you can't dictate it, it just is. That was this house for us. It's light and bright and cheery, and fun, and has personality, and it backs up to one of the longest bike paths in Madison, and is close to tons of stuff, without being in the middle of the city. We loved it. After some discussions with the owner, we came to an agreement that had us beating out at least 2 other offers. The house was on the market for less than 2 weeks. That part is almost a sale in itself - the thought of selling another house after our last experience left a bad taste in our mouths. Obviously, this house (or neighborhood, or a combination of the two) are desirable, so all we need to do now is not screw it up before we want to sell it. (A looooong time from now, I hope!) We look forward to sharing it with all of you! Congratulate us - after three years, we are finally HOME.
Wisconsin Sunset
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Lindsay,
I wish I was there to give you a HUG right now!
I drove past your house today on another showing tour, and just plain smiled when I passed it. It's the kind of house that just makes one smile!
Remember to breathe and have a good visualization that works for you.....a place you can go in your mind when you need it. I used a wall clock as my trigger.
And, you just got a CHEAP spa trt!
I join the list of people praying for you, hoping for good outcomes.
And, even if it's worse than you hope, remember that there are many folks like me walking around years later, still "fairly" able!
Good things come to delightfully good people,
Sharon
PS Patti and I are meeting Thu for a glass of wine.....we have so many levels that we connect on. I am looking forward to it! Thank you!
Love and prayers being sent your way. You are always in my thoughts. And congratulations on your home! xo
Lindsay,
Thanks for staying in touch. John and I will be praying for you, especially during your surgery tomorrow, and hope all goes well. We'll pray, too, that you get good news from your surgeon.
Also, "Congratulations!" on the purchase of a home!! You must be extremely excited and looking forward to being in your 'own' place again. Can't wait to see pictures!
We will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers as you recover from your surgery.
Take care!
Hey Lindsay,
You are so inspiring. Even in the midst of anticipation of your surgery and the busyness of buying a home (yea for that!!!), you took the time to stop at a special bakery to get me giant sized Gluten Free m & m cookies as a Happy Tuesday treat. That's you -- thoughtful, selfless, able to rise above the challenges and keep living to the fullest. God is and will continue using you in amazing ways. I'm praying for you and your wonderful Jonathan today -- for strength, comfort, peace and His almighty arms wrapped tightly around you.
Blessings on you always,
Gwen
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